You missed your opportunity to ask Jan in front of HR if she ever figured out where she knew your boyfriend from, since she said he looked familiar to her.
Also what are the freakin chances someone there just happened to subscribe to your boyfriends OF. Like HOW? OF is a site full of citizens! Do they let you search by area or something? Just the fact that someone on the first day of a new job, at a religious school no less just happens to subscribe to the OF account of your boyfriend?!
But this concerned party is just worried about the school's reputation. They're spending time on nsfw OF so they know who to keep away from the kids! /s
I don’t get why you wouldn’t just be a pervert in private. Like you can even get to enjoy the content more knowing that person in real life. So why not just silently enjoy and pretend to know nothing about it?
Because, (especially if it’s the principal), you are constantly in fear that the boyfriend will spill your dirty secret to OP. Or mention it in front of others at a school function. Assuming the person who reported has no idea of the inner workings of an OF account - they’d have no idea of whether the boyfriend could ID them or not.
I went to school with the dr who called about Shanon Gilbert’s kids (one of the gilgo beach serial killers victims) and all of oak island basically went to the same school and they we are weirdos behind closed doors
I completely agree. I went to a baptist
HS. A lot of the administration and teachers were creepy. I had one boy sexually harass me & kept on groping me in the hallway in front of teachers. When I reported him, they basically said “boys just can’t help it” 🤮The female staff told me just to ignore it. The religion teacher even told me I was going to hell for telling one guy off. He said that as a girl I should learn my place basically. Then proceed to print off a bunch of bible scripture relating to women having to be subservient to their man.
They’re also weirdly strict. If you were unmarried, they had to sign that they wouldn’t participate in premarital sex.
OF doesn't to my knowledge but the apps they like to advertise on do. So like I'm in CO and easily once a week a see a locals thirst trap with the link in their bio.
What is OF and what do people use it for? Is it a sex site? I’ve never heard of it but, else would a person be getting a subscription for someone who’s a sex worker? And, HOW would her boss really know unless she is all too familiar with this guy and the website? Hmmm makes a person think!
This is kind of an elaborate situation and kinda depends on the size of the community but… if it’s a small town, it’s possible that people had been gossiping about him and Jan knows about it that way, and then when she met him it clicked “omg he’s that guy that does OF that my friend Linda was talking about “ … something along those lines. I know it’s kind of elaborate, but seems more likely than the chance that Jan had seen him on OF independently. There’s way too many OF models. Unless this dude is hugely popular on the site.
Not sure if it's what's happening here, but OF creators will often have other social media with their city listed to advertise their OF, since it's a lot easier to get a following on twitter or instagram. I get recommended tons of twitter pages of people in my city with people's OF in their linktree
I have before but it's been out of curiosity because a public figure has an account, for an older woman who works HR (Jan was HR right?) to be subscribed to a random account is so unbelievable that I assume she knows of the OF from stalking OP's page. It is logical that a religious school would do a deep dive on an employee's socials.
My ex’s brother taught at a religious high school, and he carried on an inappropriate relationship with a student for years without anyone ever doing anything about it. I don’t trust someone just because they work at a religious school lol.
Nope! I have no idea if it ever escalated to the point of physical contact, but it was absolutely inappropriate (“hanging out” alone after school and weekends, driving her in his car/having her over, doing various activities alone outside of school together) and we all told him so dozens of times. Nobody did anything.
But also “utilizes” their content so much they can recognize them outside of the situation. That bit is wild to me. I have some favorite videos but there is no way I’d be able to pick someone in them off the street!!
From what I’ve heard, quite the opposite. Might be a premium thing but usually only people several states over will see you. Like some kind of IP ban for nearby people…
Okay my new theory is Jan who recognized him had stalked OP online prior to bringing her stuff to campus and she found the boyfriend's OF by clicking around OP's profiles, maybe she was trying to scare her by saying he looked familiar to see how she would respond. But all roads are pointing to Jan imo.
I just realized this sub is for a podcast and im assuming the podcast gets all of their content from here so of course people are gonna try their best to make up the most dramatic stories in the hopes of getting mentioned. I see this shitty sub on all and figured it was just another AITA type clone sub, but it's even worse
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u/NotSlothbeard 6d ago
You missed your opportunity to ask Jan in front of HR if she ever figured out where she knew your boyfriend from, since she said he looked familiar to her.