r/AITAH 6d ago

AITAH for telling my daughter I won’t budge even if she never speaks to me again?

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u/Sunbeamsoffglass 5d ago

“If you were a good sister you’ll let her drive your car. You’re faaammliy you have to share.”

That’s exactly what happened….

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u/audigex 5d ago

"... and if she does damage it we'll get it fixed"

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u/KotaB420 5d ago

Op doesn't have that kind of forethought

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u/pmw1981 5d ago

Or even “share with your sister or we’ll punish you for being selfish”

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u/throwaway_t6788 5d ago

why do redditors get carried away with this - the same point has been mentioned 1000 times - let OP come back with yeah you are right and then at least you would have a right to talk smack..

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u/gratiachar 5d ago

you’re being downvoted but you’re right, there’s a lot of assumptions about what actually happened. you can speculate all you want but fueling your hatred for op with stuff that you think he said is not right. these are real people not characters in a show that you can judge harshly all you want.

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u/da6r 5d ago

You're being downvoted for no reason lol. Reddit is a witch hunt at times

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u/GoofyGooba88 5d ago

This triggers me greatly. Family gaslighting is the fucking worst.

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u/dogemeat1 5d ago

How do you know?

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u/DrAstralis 5d ago

probably how they got the insurance money to use on medical as well.

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u/CynicalOne_313 5d ago

^ This right here is the response my family gives me when they "ask" me to do something. If I don't, they spin the narrative that I'm being "mean, selfish, inconsiderate, etc. and not thinking of THEM".

My mother did that with me my entire life and my aunts and uncles picked up her narrative of who she told them I was, instead of talking to me because she was my "parent". (My dad died when I was 13 and then I became my mother's scapegoat after she started dating the guy who became my stepfather.) I have cerebral palsy + legally blind/no depth perception so I was too anxious to learn how to drive not to mention the city I was living in it was dangerous enough being a pedestrian and someone wants me to learn how to drive a CAR?! No thank you. When she got sick I found out they knew how she treated me the entire time. I also found out a few years ago I'm neurodivergent, so it was another weapon my mom used against me.

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u/Spideral1 5d ago

Oh good someone was in the room with the family who knows what happened, thank you for sharing!

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u/ForbiddenDonutsLord 5d ago

Do you know what a logical assumption is?

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u/IWasGonnaSayBrown 5d ago

You flat out made that up. How is this a logical assumption?

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u/Frightful_Fork_Hand 5d ago

I’ll donate £10 to the charity of your choice if you can define how somebody can say “that’s exactly what happened” about a situation they didn’t see, don’t know anything about beyond 5-6 words.

 “Logical assumption” nah, this is either bad trolling or something more embarrassing.